When the 1841 census was recorded the couple were both said to be 75 years
old and they were living at Brookwood in West Grinstead, along with 30 year
old Henry Lelliott and 40 year old Rebecca Lelliott.
Peter was then an agricultural labourer. Also living with them at that
time was 15 year old, agricultural labourer, William Lilleywhite.
on 14 March 1790 in Ashurst. Her father was then
described as Peter Lilliott, junior. She died as a
child and was buried on 5 February 1795 in Ashurst. Her name was
recorded in the burial register as Sarah Lilliot.
Mary Lilliott was baptised on 1 January 1792 in Ashurst.
Maria Lilliot was baptised on 3 March 1794 in Ashurst.
Rhoda Lilliot was baptised on 10 April 1796 in Ashurst.
Rhoda married Benjamin Marner on 31 October 1817 in Thakeham, Sussex.
He was then a bachelor and she a spinster and they were both of Thakeham.
Rhoda signed her name whilst Benjamin made his X mark. The witnesses
to the marriage were Richard Lilliott ane Eleanor Lilliott
who both signed their names.
Benjamin was baptised on 26 August 1792 in Findon, Sussex and and was the
son of Thomas Marner and Sarah Cheale. He died before the recording of the 1861 census, as his widow
Rhoda Mancer was then living with her unmarried sister Rebecca in
Washington Street, Washington. Rhoda was then a school mistress.
When the 1841 census was recorded the couple and 3 children were living in
Washington and Benjamin was an agricultural labourer. In 1851 the
couple and their son George were living in Comb, Steyning and
Benjamin was then a shepherd.
Benjamin and Rhoda had 3 known children:
William Marner was born about 1826. He was a 15 year old
gardener in 1841.
Ellen Marner was born about 1834 in Washington. In 1841 she
was 7 years old. When the 1851 census was recorded she was a 17 year
old house maid living at 7 Park Crescent in Broadwater, Sussex. By
1861 she was an unmarried 27 year old nurse living in Hilton,
George Marner was born about 1837 in Washington. He was 4
years old when the 1841 census was recorded. In 1851 he was 14 years
There was another
Lelliott baptised on 18 December 1796 in Ashurst, but she married
George Jupp on 17 September 1821. This other Rhoda was the
daughter of John
The 2 Rhoda's were cousins.
Rebecca Lilliot was baptised on 31 December 1797 in Ashurst.
She never married. In 1841 she was living with her brother Henry and
their parents in West Grinstead. When the 1851 census was recorded
she was an unmarried 50 year old cook in the home of John Austin,
who was the rector of Pulborough, Sussex. In 1861 she was a house
William Lelliot was baptised on 27 October 1799 in Ashurst.
He married Harriet Shoulder
in 1827. (They have their own page.)
James Lilliot, a twin, was privately baptised on 10 May 1802 in
Ashurst and buried there on 2 June 1802.
Peter Lilliot, a twin, was privately baptised on
10 May 1802 in Ashurst and buried there on 2 June 1802.
Eleanor Lilliot was baptised on 26 June 1803 in Ashurst.
She died aged 88 years and her death was registered in the second quarter
of 1891 in the Thakeham registration district.
As Eleanor Lilliott she married
Lilliott in the fourth quarter of 1845 in the Thakeham
John was baptised on 26 May 1811 in Ashurst and was the son of
William Lilliot and
Mary Hammond. He died aged 83 years and his death was
registered as John Lelliott in the first quarter of 1895 in the
Thakeham registration district.
Lucy Lilliot was baptised on 22 September 1805 in Ashurst.
Henry Lilliot was baptised on 27 September 1808 in Ashurst.
In 1841 he was living at Brookwood in West Grinstead where he was a
farmer. Henry married
in 1851. (They have their own page.)