Nicholas BARHAM
(1750-1807)
and Elizabeth STRICKLAND (1755-1803)

Nicholas Barham and Elizabeth Strickland were my 5x Great
Grandparents. (Click
here
to see their place in my pedigree chart.) They married by banns on 28
July 1780 at the parish church of St. Peter and St. Paul in Wadhurst, Sussex. They were both of Wadhurst. The
witnesses to the marriage were John Stickland and Thomas Cooper.
They all signed their names, and although Elizabeth's surname was recorded as
Strickland, she signed as Stickland. (John was Elizabeth's brother and
Thomas was probably the church warden.)
Nicholas Barham was born on 4 June and baptised on 2 July 1750 in
Wadhurst. He was the second son and child of
Nicholas Barham (1721-1790) and
Elizabeth Greagsby
(1721-1789). He died on 19 June 1807 and was buried on 23 June 1807 in
Wadhurst. (In 1993 I found his headstone propped up against a
fence/wall with other discarded stones in the Wadhurst churchyard.)
Nicholas left a will in which he stated that he was a wheelwright of
Sparrows Green in Wadhurst. He appointed William Moreland a
farmer of Wadhurst and Thomas Wallis a shopkeeper of Wadhurst as
executors or his will. (I have a copy of this document and will
eventually transcribe it and include it in this site.) Nicholas was
appointed an overseer of his father-in-law's will.
Elizabeth Strickland was baptised on 28 February 1755 in Wadhurst.
She was the eldest daughter and second child of
Robert Stickland
(1731-1794) and
Elizabeth Petit
(1734-1816). She died aged 48 years and was buried on 16 May 1803 in
Wadhurst. She died intestate and administration of her estate was
granted to her son Nicholas Barham on 7 March 1817 . See
notes
below to read my transcript of the Letters of Administration. By the
terms of her father's will, she was left a legacy of £100.
A
cricket match was played in Wadhurst on 9 June 1788 - I wonder if
Nicholas played or went along to watch?
Nicholas
Barham and Elizabeth Strickland had 6 known children:
-
Elizabeth Barham was baptised on 30 November 1780 in Ticehurst,
Sussex. She may have died before 1807 as she was not mentioned in her
father's will.
-
Philly Strickland Barham
was baptised on 20 April 1783 in Wadhurst. She married
Samuel
Wallis
in 1808. (They have their own page.)
-
Nicholas
Barham, my 4x Great Grandfather, was born on 22 April
and baptised on 17 May 1785 in Wadhurst. He married
Elizabeth Moren
in 1808. (They have their own page.)
-
Eastman Stickland Barham was born on 3 May and baptised on 21 June
1793 in Wadhurst. He married
Mary Jeffery
in 1816. (They have their own page.)
-
Mary Barham was born on 30 March and baptised on 14 June 1799 in
Wadhurst. She was mentioned in her father's will.
Mary may
have married Thomas Hanbury by banns on 15 December 1818 in
Wadhurst. Thomas was a bachelor. They were both of Wadhurst
and both signed their names. The witnesses were Nicholas Barham
and John Cooper, who also both signed their names.
-
Talitha-cumi Barham was born on 24 March and baptised on 5 June
1801 in Wadhurst. She was mentioned in her father's will. In
1823 she was a spinster living in Upper Tooting, Surrey.

Notes
Letters of Administration were granted to Nicholas Barham in respect
of his mother:
On the seventh day of March in the year of our Lord one thousand eight
hundred and seventeen the Reverend Edward Robert Rayners Clerk
Archdeacon of Lewes Surrogate and so forth committed Administration of all
and singular the Goods Chattels and Credits of Elizabeth Barham late
of Wadhurst within the Deanery of Southmalling in the County of Sussex
deceased (and wife of Nicholas Barham also deceased) intestate to
Nicholas Barham of Wadhurst aforesaid Wheelwright one of the sons of the
said Elizabeth Barham deceased He being first sworn well and
faithfully to administer the same and so forth And that the said Goods &c
were under the value of two hundred pounds
The said Nicholas Barham and Samuel Wallis of Wadhurst
aforesaid Bricklayer and Joseph Ticehurst of Lewes in the said County
of Sussex Innkeeper are respectively bound in this behalf in the penalty of
four hundred pounds
The above is my transcript of an original document that can be found at the
East Sussex Record Office on microfiche, reference SM/D11, page 479.
QUESTION: Who was Joseph
Ticehurst?

BARHAM
STRICKLAND
